It’s not just because you disagreed with me.

It’s because you saw a woman getting upset at a man’s aggressiveness and you decided to pile on the woman to tell her to stop being upset. You said so yourself.

Whether you recognize why you did so doesn’t matter to me. As an outspoken woman, I’ve encountered enough men that do this to know your motivations, subconscious or not.

I never said they did?

We’re talking about how language is used and weaponized depending on different scenarios.

Women are bossy, men are strong leaders.

Ignoring gender inequality in favor of focusing on class solidarity even though they are inextricably tied. Chavez did it to the point of raping many women and girls.

Probably referencing Chavez’ tendency to rape and sexually assault even his allies in the fight for class solidarity.

It really depends what you mean by “real” feminazi.

There’s quite a dismissive attitude in this entire thread about gender equality.

Crying about class warfare when women bring up gender equality does make you sound dismissive.

kinda fun, could totally be misconstrued as misogynistic though.

I read into this line a bit much, apologies if I came off a little harsh. I did think you agreed with me!

Women don’t have to stay meek and sweet in the face of being called a scold and an asshole for something as simple as answering a question. Favoredponcho revealed his own misogyny in his reply to me and I feel no qualms with being snarky back at him to be honest.

It is not my job to coddle men because I’m a woman. Period. I don’t have to be sweet or nice or humble because a man has taken issue with my supposed tone.

I think you should examine why you singled out the woman in the argument on this particular topic to scold instead of the man who made it into an argument to begin with. You jumped in to help attack me with favoredponcho.

What I said to favoredponcho was absolutely called for in my opinion. I did nothing but answer his question and I got called hostile and an asshole for it.

My comments to you were a bit harsh, but I’m still undecided whether I want to retract them or not. As far as I’m aware, I wasn’t hostile to anyone in this thread unless they were a jerk back to me. I was simply participating in discussions.

Again, why didn’t you reply to favoredponcho with his freakout at me and tell him to chill the fuck out? Why did you single ME out?

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“Chill the fuck out” when I wasn’t the one to be un-chill about a question being answered.

It’s a real problem on Lemmy tbh.

I should start to get prizes for how many men get offended by my “scolding” lol

I was simply answering the question about her ties to Epstein.

Those statements only came after favoredponcho and you attacked me.

I didn’t claim it wasn’t also a class issue.

All of those comments came AFTER you and favoredponcho decided I was being hostile for no reason.

Why do you feel like women are being hostile just by participating in discussion?

I am for gender equality, but it really isn’t required for class solidarity.

Maybe we can’t have gender equality until we solve the class one, that makes sense to me… the ruling class are mainly responsible for sustaining the culture divide.

And I disagree that we must ignore gender equality in order to have class solidarity.

I answered your question and you decided to scold me.

All I had said was that the info could also be found elsewhere in the comments.