Hi, I’m Amy.

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I live in Japan. Talk to me about Haskell, Scheme, and Linux.

日本語も通じます。

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Cake day: October 17th, 2025

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  • I told my parents by email (I live halfway around the world from them), and my immediate family and coworkers in person. Everyone else got my new name at most when I next met them – they’ll figure it out, or not, in their own time.

    I suggest:

    • say what you are doing (eg, “I am going to live as a woman from now on”)
    • say what you expect of them (eg, “I’d like you to call me Twilight Sparkle”)
    • then shut up and wait for a response

    And if you’re not expecting it to go well,

    • don’t try to justify it
    • don’t argue
    • don’t bargain or downplay it
    • be prepared to just leave

    Good luck!