This. Record him saying these things. Otherwise it’s he said she said. Keep a log of names and dates of when he spoke to you, what he said. This will not get better on it’s own.

Also this protects your future jobs, you don’t want to get fired from ever doing this again because, she seduced my husband! That hussy will never work again!

Oh man. I remember being at my friend’s house for forth of July. Her younger sister broke a glass Disney figurine in the kitchen. I braced myself for the yelling, the guilt tripping the party to be over, but none of that happened. Her mother did yell, but only to keep her sister from moving because she wasn’t wearing shoes and there was broken glass. Her sister apologized, helped mom clean it up, and that was that. I went home going, was that a real family!? Is that how it’s supposed to be!??

Five nights at Fredos kinda vibe

Or native

This is the only one that makes me question reality. My dad spent a lot of time working in Germany before I was born and we had decorative beer steins all over the house. I remember asking about them and as I started to read being told, “see it’s steins, like Daddy’s fancy mugs.” What the in the alternate memory making dimension hole is going on here!?