"Hey, I’m really sorry to have to say this, but I don’t think this is going to work.

I have a hard time communicating as I’m pretty shy and a people-pleaser, but it feels like you’re way more attached to Dave than me. It feels like, to me, even if it’s not true and my brain is just being stupid, that you care a lot more about spending time with him and answering his texts than talking to me. You tend to text him and call him a lot but will just see my messages and not reply a lot and you don’t seem to have time to call me. I think we’d be better off as friends. Again, I’m so sorry, but I feel like we need different things in the relationship. I need a more attached partner like how you are with him, but it was hard for me to say so. Maybe we could be friends, unless you’d like to try again.

Good luck with everything and have a happy relationship with Dave,

Wendy"